h a l f b a k e r yOn the one hand, true. On the other hand, bollocks.
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This would be an online dating site where participants post pictures, media encapsulating parts of themselves they are not happy with. Since there is a very large pool to access, there is an adequate probability of finding someone that will love that part of you therefore helping you love yourself to
completeness (relative to changing a life).
Yes, I know, a whole lot of genital pics and that can be an incorporated section for that level. But mainly, I am thinking nose too big, earlobes too stubby, hair too curly, that sort of thing. People could even go less physical and have a laugh sample or media representing a behaviour. A photo of your mouth with crumbs and an empty cake plate. How the media type is constructed will be a set former of the possible matches.
Now your loathed asset, can be your best.
Disclosure: Profiles will be sent to the police, if more than two matches die of suspicious circumstances.
Underdoze (in Hebrew) funny skit talking about a potential date
https://www.youtube...watch?v=xZProF9u40A She's beatiful. Everybody turns their eyes after her. Her hair is blonde with stunning green eyes. -Sounds great. -OK I'll give you her number. -Wait, not that its so important but how is her character? -Well... [pashute, Aug 13 2019]
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Or just get married. The ugly parts have such a way of
spilling out eventually. |
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I just noticed the dating category is a subcategory of other,
rather than culture or public. I wonder why. |
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Anyway, this is asking people to share their insecurities as a
means of promoting themselves. I'm sure that will have
some interesting effects. One might be that the site's
population would be skewed toward people who are less
insecure. |
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Every being wants to think that others are like themselves and therefore they themselves are 'normal'. From infancy people determine one quirk at a time that they are or are not 'normal'. When you determine that normalcy isn't your gig it takes time to reach the fuck-it stage where you either force anyone around you to accept you the way you are or you cave-in and conform. |
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Before they reach that point nobody wants to broadcast their own particular freakitude. |
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[blissmiss] Ah, how beauty changes with life. |
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[notexactly] All the better for those less secure. |
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[2 fries] Societies generalised norms are going to decide if an individuals quirk is beneficial or unwanted. People are going to do it hard if society puts them outside the embrace/wall. An intelligent society would work out where people would gain the most out of life for the society as a whole. |
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Even just expressing and thinking about parts of the self in new and novel ways has to be for the betterment of self. Better selves, better humanity. |
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//An intelligent society would work out where people would gain the most out of life for the society as a whole.// |
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Guess I'm going to have to make me one of them then because that sure isn't what we've got.
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On the slow path, mate. I 'm guessing we won't see it, though. But, the conceptual ideal is enough for me. |
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The ugly parts that ruin relationships are all on the inside. |
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//this is asking people to share their insecurities as a means of promoting themselves.// |
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Everyone will pick something, say, a perfectly normal elbow and pretend they're ashamed of it so they don't have to really admit anything. |
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/Societies generalised norms are going to decide if an individuals quirk is beneficial or unwanted.// |
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I've gone for an 80/20 solution. I let people see 80% of me, knowing they would shun me for the rest. I guess that makes me 20% immoral. |
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So, find someone who loves your guts as the
inverse to hating your guts. |
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[AusCan]Yes, It's a big ocean of personality. |
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[Voice] True, this will have to take honesty. Risk has the chance of both failure and reward. You could put forward something you only 20% loath to dip the hairy toe in the water. |
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