Activity Network

- Connect with your lifemate (or at least 1st one :)

Givens

- You really want to meet your lifemate. - Many people who work in offices, at home, etc. encounter very few people in a given year. - The odds of connecting with someone goes up directly with the number of people met under the right circumstances. - The right circumstances are NOT a bar, the internet, etc. (this is the mother/father of your children we are talking about!). - It is VERY hard to meet people after education is complete since you are not forced together with people the same age and in the same life circumstances. - You can only meet your lifemate if you meet SOMEONE (staying at home alone has not worked so far...) - The BEST way to meet and connect with a potential lifemate is doing something fun/interesting together.

PROBLEM

- How can a person find their lifemate when it is so hard to meet people and when the existing means of meeting people are so undesireable?

SOLUTION

- Make your own means of meeting people. As follows:

1. Hopefully, you at least have a group of friends who are in the same boat as you. Tell each of them about this system and invite them to a kick-off meeting. 2. Explain this system to them - give a speech explaining why each of them has not met their lifemate (a simple numbers problem, etc.). 3. Ask each person to commit one weekend day per month to participate in a planned activity (canoeing, climbing, hiking, museum, balooning, etc.). 4. On a rotating basis, each participant must plan and organize that day's activity. 5. For every activity, each participant must invite at least 1 friend the other people don't know who is also single, interested in meeting people, etc. 6. Hopefully, at these events, people will connect with a friend of a friend. 7. If it looks like an invited person is not going to connect with anyone, they are told what is going on and asked if they want to participate. 8. This way the set of participants grows. 9. As people find their lifemate, move in together, get married, they will likely drop out of the group. This is OK - mission accomplished!