This would be an online dating site where participants post pictures, media encapsulating parts of themselves they are not happy with. Since there is a very large pool to access, there is an adequate probability of finding someone that will love that part of you therefore helping you love yourself to completeness (relative to changing a life).

Yes, I know, a whole lot of genital pics and that can be an incorporated section for that level. But mainly, I am thinking nose too big, earlobes too stubby, hair too curly, that sort of thing. People could even go less physical and have a laugh sample or media representing a behaviour. A photo of your mouth with crumbs and an empty cake plate. How the media type is constructed will be a set former of the possible matches.

Now your loathed asset, can be your best.

Disclosure: Profiles will be sent to the police, if more than two matches die of suspicious circumstances.
-- wjt, Aug 11 2019

Underdoze (in Hebrew) funny skit talking about a potential date https://www.youtube...watch?v=xZProF9u40A
She's beatiful. Everybody turns their eyes after her. Her hair is blonde with stunning green eyes. -Sounds great. -OK I'll give you her number. -Wait, not that its so important but how is her character? -Well... [pashute, Aug 13 2019]

Or just get married. The ugly parts have such a way of spilling out eventually.
-- blissmiss, Aug 11 2019


I just noticed the dating category is a subcategory of other, rather than culture or public. I wonder why.

Anyway, this is asking people to share their insecurities as a means of promoting themselves. I'm sure that will have some interesting effects. One might be that the site's population would be skewed toward people who are less insecure.
-- notexactly, Aug 12 2019


Every being wants to think that others are like themselves and therefore they themselves are 'normal'. From infancy people determine one quirk at a time that they are or are not 'normal'.
When you determine that normalcy isn't your gig it takes time to reach the fuck-it stage where you either force anyone around you to accept you the way you are or you cave-in and conform.

Before they reach that point nobody wants to broadcast their own particular freakitude.
-- 2 fries shy of a happy meal, Aug 12 2019


[blissmiss] Ah, how beauty changes with life.

[notexactly] All the better for those less secure.

[2 fries] Societies generalised norms are going to decide if an individuals quirk is beneficial or unwanted. People are going to do it hard if society puts them outside the embrace/wall. An intelligent society would work out where people would gain the most out of life for the society as a whole.

Even just expressing and thinking about parts of the self in new and novel ways has to be for the betterment of self. Better selves, better humanity.
-- wjt, Aug 12 2019


//An intelligent society would work out where people would gain the most out of life for the society as a whole.//

Guess I'm going to have to make me one of them then because that sure isn't what we've got.

-- 2 fries shy of a happy meal, Aug 13 2019


On the slow path, mate. I 'm guessing we won't see it, though. But, the conceptual ideal is enough for me.
-- wjt, Aug 13 2019


The ugly parts that ruin relationships are all on the inside.
-- Voice, Aug 13 2019


//this is asking people to share their insecurities as a means of promoting themselves.//

Everyone will pick something, say, a perfectly normal elbow and pretend they're ashamed of it so they don't have to really admit anything.

/Societies generalised norms are going to decide if an individuals quirk is beneficial or unwanted.//

I've gone for an 80/20 solution. I let people see 80% of me, knowing they would shun me for the rest. I guess that makes me 20% immoral.
-- Voice, Aug 13 2019


So, find someone who loves your guts as the inverse to hating your guts.
-- AusCan531, Aug 13 2019


[AusCan]Yes, It's a big ocean of personality.

[Voice] True, this will have to take honesty. Risk has the chance of both failure and reward. You could put forward something you only 20% loath to dip the hairy toe in the water.
-- wjt, Aug 14 2019



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